Social Engagement Etiquette

I remember when I first got on Facebook. The first thing you did was friend/find everyone you knew because Facebook was a privilege. You needed to (1) be accepted to college and (2) needed to have you college email address. It was a mad rush to show that you knew as many people as possible.
But that was close to five years ago. Since then, I’ve done a few “friend purges” as Facebook became an integral part of my social interactions. The latest element of Facebook I recently depend on is Facebook events. Right before the latest Facebook redesign, I fell in love with the stalker-esque “Friends’ Events” feature. And the redesign made it that much easier to see what events are happening and what I could possibly miss.
It also brings up events that “low priority friends” (the people who for some reason constantly miss the purging cuts) are going to that are interesting to you. The best part, and strangely, the most anti-social part is, you don’t have to acknowledge the Facebook friend at said event.
With Facebook events and learning about events you have not necessarily been invited to come more social etiquette. Things like, don’t go to a small gathering (i.e. has less than 100 attendees) unless the host has invited you; along with if it’s an event that you found out about through a friend with complicated history (e.g. estranged best friends, ex-boyfriends) don’t go alone, bring your own friends.
Within the past few months, I’ve never been more dependent on Facebook to fill any blanks in my busy schedule. And as I become more dependent on Facebook to tell me what’s happening in my friends, family and contacts’s lives, more of these social rules come to light. What rules have you been following?


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